So somebody’s given you a gift certificate for a massage. You’ve never had one before, and you’re not sure yet if this is one of those gifts you’re supposed to appreciate because “it’s the thought that counts,” as they say. You know getting this massage will involve making an appointment and being somewhere at a specific time, which seems like a chore, kind of like a doctor or dentist appointment. You have a general idea that it will involve lying on a table for anywhere from a half hour to an hour, and you’re afraid you’ll get bored. Read on and you’ll learn how to get the most out of your experience.
Tip #1: Get to your appointment ten to fifteen minutes early. New clients often have to fill out paperwork, and you don’t want that eat into your massage time. It’s also good idea to visit the restroom before your appointment.
Once you’ve met your therapist and been shown to a treatment room, you’ll have a discussion about what your goals are for the session. Maybe you just want to relax, or maybe you want to work on low back pain. Don’t be afraid to ask questions or state what you want.
Tip # 2: Tell your massage therapist about your physical issues. Things like “I’m ticklish on my lower back” and “I can’t turn my head to the right” or “My left calf is pressure sensitive” help the massage therapist plan a strategy for your massage. Be sure to mention recent injuries or surgeries.
Tip# 3: Wear your underwear, or not. Before your therapist leaves the room, your therapist will give you instructions on what to do, which will likely include the statement “Undress to your level of comfort.” This means you only take off the items of clothing you feel comfortable parting with. Many people take off everything except their underwear, but your therapist has likely worked on clients in the past who remained fully clothed for the session. Likewise, many people take off all their clothes.
North Carolina draping policy dictates that breast, groin, and gluteal (butt) areas must remain covered by a sheet unless the client voluntarily asks for those areas to be uncovered. The therapist will uncover one body part at a time to work on during the massage.
Tip #4: Get under the sheet and blanket. Unless you’re wearing all your clothes, you’re required by law to be covered with a sheet or “draped” during your massage. If it’s uncomfortably warm in the room, the therapist can adjust the temperature or remove the blanket over the sheet.
Tip #5: Don’t worry about looking beautiful for your massage therapist. Sometimes female clients apologize for not shaving their legs prior to the appointment, but this is not necessary. Massage therapists, as a general rule, do not judge clients based on their stubble, tans (or lack thereof), their cellulite or abundance of back hair.
Tip #6: It’s okay to go to sleep. Many clients find they relax and go into twilight state or light nap, and this is a perfectly acceptable way to enjoy a massage. The massage therapist will not be offended, and you’re still getting the full benefits of the massage if you’re not awake and alert.
Tip #7: You don’t have to help. Your massage therapist may move your limbs or head during the massage in order to stretch or gain better access to muscle groups. It’s okay to be like a rag doll and let the massage therapist do all the work.
Tip #8: Communicate with your massage therapist (if you want). If your massage therapist finds and works on a knotty spot, sometimes the discomfort involved can actually feel good because your body senses that the pain is helping to resolve a problem. Many clients refer to this as “A good hurt.” But once discomfort becomes too intense, speak up. Too much pressure or manipulation can cause a muscle to go into defensive contraction, and this works against solving the problem. Barring issues like this, clients may or may not choose to ask questions or start conversation during the massage, depending on their preferences.
Tip #9: Be realistic. If you have a longstanding physical issue, it may take a longer session or even a series of sessions before you see marked improvement. Issues like low back pain and cricks in necks tend to develop over time, and often it takes time to work them out.
Tip #10: Drive safely. It’s common to feel blissed-out and spacey after a massage. Take your time getting to your feet and getting dressed. Most importantly, be extra careful driving home. Sometimes clients plan some relaxing time in a coffee shop or restaurant after the massage and before they get back in the car.
A number of our clients got their first massage without knowing what to expect, and found it to be a learning experience. Many people say things like “I had no idea I was sore there” or “I had forgotten what it’s like to be this relaxed,” and they use what they learn to prolong the benefits of the massage. Sometimes this means stretching during the day or simply changing how they use desk space at work. Many people decide to make massage a regular part of their lives.